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TWO FRAMEWORKS

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I offer bespoke 1:1 coaching in three packages: 3, 6 or 9 sessions, each built around my two frameworks.

The Cup Theory supports how your week actually runs. We find where your time and energy go, and build the systems and routines that keep you at full capacity rather than the version of it you've learned to live with.

The Duality Framework works on what keeps stopping you and creating access around what’s needed within, to succeed.

One keeps you at full capacity. The other gets you achieving what you'd stopped reaching for.

I've coached CEOs, veterans, business owners, headteachers and fellow coaches. And across all of it, one thing has held true:

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As a qualified Life Coach and Educator, I hold myself to the highest standards.

The teacher in me says, “There’s always more to learn.” The coach in me? “Let’s learn it - and use it to our advantage.”  

Coaching is transformative. It’s powerful and it works…but there has to be chemistry and alignment.

That’s why I offer a free chemistry call, first.

Before we start

Every client receives a personalised pre-coaching guide. Five days of activities built specifically for you, drawn from a short assessment and what you tell me on our first call. They're designed to warm up the psychological muscles we're about to use.

This isn't a welcome pack. Most clients feel something shift before session one, which means we start the work rather than building up to it.

You'll also complete a Wheel of Life. It gives us an honest picture of where you are across every area of your life on day one, which matters more than people expect. Change is gradual, and without a baseline it's remarkably easy to forget how far you've come.

Then a contracting session, so we're both clear on what we're building and how we'll know it's working.

Two frameworks, doing two different jobs

The Cup Theory runs throughout. We find where your time and energy are leaking, and build the daily systems that keep you operating at full capacity rather than the version of it you've got used to.

The Duality Framework runs underneath everything, and it also gets a session of its own. A dedicated Duality Foundation Session, placed towards the end of your journey, for the thing that still feels stuck once the systems are holding.

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I Work Differently…

Coaching Packages

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The ‘Starter’

Feeling stuck? Ready to reset?

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The ‘Accelerator’

Ready to pick up speed - and maintain it?

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The ‘LCL’

Ready to manage you inner team and WIN?

How to Work With Me.

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    Book Chemistry Call

    A relaxed conversation (via Zoom) to ensure we’re aligned.

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    You'll receive my three bespoke package options - designed to suit your needs and goals.

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    Receive Starter Pack

    You'll be emailed your personalised pre-coaching guide, wheel of life, virtual reminders, contract and any additional tools we’ve discussed.

My Credentials.

  • Personal Performance Coaching Accreditation – The Coaching Academy

  • POC – The Power of Coaching Certification – Olevi  

  • Certified DISC Practitioner – The Coaching Academy

  • PGCE – Postgraduate Certificate in Education – Roehampton University

  • BA – English Language, Literature & Sociology Joint Honours Degree – St Mary’s University


Additional Experience

  • Executive Contributor – Brainz Magazine

  • 10+ years in education, leadership, mentoring, and personal development

As a qualified Life Coach and teacher, I hold myself to the highest standards through ongoing accreditation, continuous development, and daily mental stimulation (books are my love language).